how to improve personality development skills

 How to create Magnetic Personality ?

I will not tell to what to do, i will tell you what you shoul not do and you will find what to do then.

A belief that I have succeeded:

 When a person always thinks that he has succeeded and he has a strong desire to claim credit for every small success. When you have this type of mentality you lose engagement with peoples when you talk more about your success and achievement not the way of your struggle, you still talk about your assets like your branded car or watch or a costly house, etc, people get detached to you. This is one reason that will put people off you.

Winning too much, criticizing the source of feedback:

 If you winning every time it can be very dangerous winning every time can make you overconfident. And if someone tells that you are wrong then you take that source as a mistake because you have believed that you can’t be wrong so you start to criticize the source and people don’t like this type of person they start maintaining distance.

Starting a conversation with ‘No’ or ‘But’:

If you always start your conversation with no or but this means you’re right and another is wrong this is very deep you can’t be right always and always starting with no or but can kill your personality. People don’t like these types of people who are always right. And starting a conversation with no or but sounds rude.

Playing My Favorite:

If you always say people that you are right and he is wrong, do as I spoke, my way or highway, judging and rating people you don’t know so do as I say, your standard is low, or I know more so don’t try to teach me you will lose peoples attraction. They don’t even want to talk with. You praise yourself that you know everything and nobody can say anything against you. This action will kill your personality and nobody will like to talk to you and they keep maintain distance with you.

Finding opportunities to tell how smart I am:

If you always find an opportunity to tell everyone that how smart you are then you slowly kill your personality you don’t need to tell about your smartness if you are smart people will always admire you don’t need to find opportunity. Many times it has seen that this type of people like to make friend with them who is always praise him and it create a barrier around you. You don’t like those people who are not agreed with your decisions.

Desire to be served than to serve:

If you always think of how people will serve you rather than how you will serve others or how people praise you rather than how you praise otters if you always things about yourself rather than others you will not getting a magnetic personality with whom everybody wants to talk with or discuss or take any suggestions if you have etiquette knowledge about something still they don’t ask you because they know you again start admiring yourself.

Starting a conversation with correction without invitation:

This is very dangerous because if start with a conversation with correction without his invitation this is rude behavior the person in front of you will make a negative thought about you. If you start a conversation with let me explain why your plan doesn’t work here you make yourself superior that you know everything and the person in front of you is dumb. Never correct your speaker without his permission rather you can say yeah I understand you with nodding head then pause for ten seconds then you can say I thought you do everything perfectly but this thing goes wrong this way you gave him a suggestion and you don’t create a negative vise the person takes you and your words carefully.

 Forgetfulness of thanks:

You have to be a thankful person, in your journey many people you have met and many people help you in your life whether it small or big many time you forget to thank him don’t shy or forgetful about giving thanks it can greatly enhance your attractive personality.

Making excuses sidelining one’s own mistake:  

Always finding excuses for your mistakes will make your personality dumb. You have to courage to accept your mistakes you don’t need to always find excuses to accept your guilt. Your personality is a brand that represents you whenever you enter a room people have their tags about your personality if you don’t accept your mistakes people start to ignore you. By not accepting your mistakes or finding excuses you make yourself that you can’t be wrong to everyone.

Ignoring to listen what was most needed to listen:

Don’t be a self condemn don’t complete other sentences let them finished then you start talking listing skills is an essential skill that one must-have. If anyone talking about your biting truth you still have to listen to him. The more you listen the more you understand if you ignore him as he says against you this will kill your personality.

Building strong perception about your Collogues or surrounding peoples:

I know what they want, I know what they know, I hate their selfishness this type of thing cannot enhance your character. No one will like to meet you, greet you, they don’t like to engage with you they were unable to create an emotional connection. A great leader can do his work without paying and a weak leader unable to get that result with high paying do make any perception about anyone this will help you to have a strong character.